The Good, The Bad and The Sovereign
A Study of God’s Relationship with People
By Friend L. Wells
His name is Bill Davis. He is not fat, but he is also not what you would call thin. You might say he is just
the right size to be a dad. When it came time in our seminary class to talk about the topic we are going to study today, Professor
Davis told us about his four year-old son who runs to him, jumps up and wraps his arms around his dad. The problem is that
four year-olds have arms that are only so long, so the boy can’t quite get his arms all the way around his dad. There
is a space around the back that he just can’t quite get a hold of. Dr. Davis says his son finds it comforting that he
can’t quite get his arms all the way around. It reminds him that Dr. Davis is big enough to be his dad.
I have been asked to prepare a short study on the topic of how God relates to us. Are we free to make choices,
or does God sovereignly control everything including the details and decisions of our lives? Does God know everything or does
he learn along with us? At the start, let me warn you that this question is too big to get your arms all the way around. But
let me also say that this simply points to the fact that God is big enough to be our Father.
Section One: Some Passages Discussing God’s Sovereignty
Isaiah 29: 15-16; Romans 9:14-24
What do these passages say about God’s relationship to people?
What is the role of a potter? What is the role of the clay?
How much control and authority does the potter have over the clay?
Psalm 65:9-11; 147:15-18
What do these passages say about God’s involvement with nature?
List some specific things that these passages say God controls.
Proverbs 16:33
What is God’s role in "random" events?
Psalm 2:1-12
What is God’s role in history?
Why are the plans of the nations "futile"?
Psalm 139:1-12
How much does God know?
Romans 8:28-30
What does this passage say about God’s role in the Christian’s life?
How much does God know?
Are there any parts of our lives that are outside God’s control, past, present, or future?
Summary Reflections
As you reflect on the truths in section one, how do you feel about the security of your relationship with God?
What would you say to a friend who said she didn’t believe God was in complete control of her situation?
Section Two: Some Passages Discussing Our Freedom
Joshua 24:14-18
What is Joshua asking the people to do?
How do they respond?
What does this passage say about our ability to choose?
1 Samuel 13:7b-14
What does this passage say about Saul’s ability to make real choices?
Did God know about this beforehand?
Did God cause this?
2 Samuel 11:2-5, 14-17
What does this passage say about David’s ability to make real choices?
Did God cause this? (see James 1:13-16)
1 Kings 3:7-10
What is wisdom?
Why did Solomon ask for wisdom?
What was God’s response to this request? (Choose one)
A. "Don’t be ridiculous, I don’t have that kind of power!"
B. "Don‘t worry about it, humans don’t have that kind of responsibility."
C. "Great job! You obviously understand your responsibility as a leader and my power as your God."
D. Other - __________________________________________
Matthew 4:17
What is Jesus asking the people to do?
Are they free to choose otherwise?
Matthew 19:16-23
What choices did this man make (or not make)?
Was he free to choose otherwise?
1 Corinthians 16:1-4
What responsibility is Paul pointing out to the Corinthians?
Are they free to choose whether or not to do this ?
2 Corinthians 5:18-6:2
What choices does Paul make in this passage?
What choices does he "plead" with his readers to make?
Summary Reflections
As you reflect on the truths in section two, how do you feel about the responsibility of your relationship with God?
What would you say to a friend who said she didn’t feel that her choices really made any difference?
Section Three: Some Passages That Bring These Truths Together
(warning, this is where you will find that your arms are too short to go all the way around these truths!)
Genesis 50:14-20
Who caused Joseph to end up in his high position in Egypt according to verses 15 & 17? According to verse 20?
Exodus 7:3,13,14; 8:15
Who hardened Pharaoh’s heart according to 7:3? According to 8:15?
John 1:11-13
According to verses 11 and 12, do we receive Christ or does he receive us?
According to verse 13?
Luke 22:21-23
Did Judas choose to betray Jesus or did God cause this?
(See also Acts 2:22-23 & 36)
Will God hold Judas responsible for this choice?
Philippians 2:12-13
Who is doing the work in our Christian lives according to verse 12? Verse 13?
Summary Reflections:
As you reflect on the truths in this section, how do you feel about the balance between God’s part and your part
in your relationship with Him?
Is God in complete control of your life?
Do you make choices that are real and significant?
Closing Thoughts:
People are uncomfortable with things they can’t understand. Yet, God has clearly told us that there are many things
about him that we simply will not be able to get our arms all the way around. The topic of God’s control and human freedom
is one of those things. Because of our strong desire to understand God completely, many attempts have been made by theologians
and philosophers throughout the years to try to combine these two truths into one understandable statement about how God relates
to us.
It might be helpful to picture a spectrum of thought with "God’s Control" at one end and "Human Freedom" at the other.